The latest thing occupying "K" is make-up. A few children had turned up at school with make -up . This has given her fresh reason to be upset with me for not allowing her to wear any. She said she was going to ask Santa to give her 'make-up' as next year's Christmas gift. I always say "NO" but if Santa gave it to her I couldn't do a thing ,could I? Just goes to show how much she knows about Santa!
But this dialogue has got me thinking. Do I really always say "NO". The answer to that is sadly in the affirmative. My daughter ( all of 5 years ) has managed to bring this out in the open . My question is ,do all mothers do this or am I one of very few? But i cannot give into all the demands she makes . So now I have started following a new tactic, though i don't really know how long it will last.
When the topic came up at the breakfast table (AGAIN) , I stated that our daughter was so pretty that she didn't need any . At first there was silence .Then,"you really think so, Mummy ?"
"of course I do."
"Okay"
I could not believe that the subject was dropped there. She continued spooning down her cereals .Grabbing the opportunity, my husband and I started discussing other mundane things.
"But can I have some lipstick on when I am really big , like 15 years old? "she asked.
"Sure , why not." said I
We have left this conversation there. As of now she is waiting for her 15 Th birthday.
Wednesday, 14 January 2009
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Haha, smart move!
ReplyDeletei too got to apply this new tactic-thank you...keep posting as it's really a very hard job tackling these kids..ufff.
ReplyDeletehehe thats very clever of you.
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